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Issue 14 - September 25, 2008


Personal note from Shawn
Keeping your head (and heart) in times of chaos.
Upcoming Events


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"When you make peace with yourself, you make peace with the world."

~ Maha Ghosananda

Personal note from Shawn

FlowersHello,

Although, I’m a little sorry to see summer ending, I have really appreciated the slight change in weather. Getting out over the weekend, taking a hike with my husband and our beloved old girl-dog, taking time to stop and watch the American River flow by, while Peyton romped in the water. Really beautiful – and the weather was perfect for it!

We had a great class on Monday, Raising Your Vibrational Essence! Such fun to step into being who and how we want to be, even if for just a few minutes. I know sharing that class always makes me feel great, knowing I’m aligning with my Higher Self, the Divine Essence and knowing I can always take a few minutes to check back in and realign. Yummmm.

Enjoy the remainder of September...may it bring you a sense of calm and peace.

Blessings,

Shawn

Keeping your head (and heart) in times of chaosFlowers

When it seems like the world is "going to hell in a handbasket," can you find and keep your center, your sense of peace, your joy? Let's face it, times are challenging right now. How are you coping with it? Can you maintain a sense of peace or do you find yourself getting caught up in the fear, anxiety, and chaos that are rampant right now? Believe it or not, you can CHOOSE to keep your head and your heart when everything around you seems to be falling apart.

Yes, you can CHOOSE to focus on something other than the chaos around you! Granted, that will likely take some practice, but the rewards are worth the effort. The first benefit is that you begin to feel better immediately. It may only last a minute or two, at first, but the benefit grows as you use the technique consistently and become more aware of when you're "falling prey" to the negativity and chaos around you...or your own habit of negative thinking. This has been a key in alleviating my bouts with depression. I still need to keep up the practice, but I am so grateful at how quickly I can catch myself beginning to harbor doubts and thoughts of "what's wrong." A simple shift of focus brings me back to deep gratitude for what I have - and a renewed enthusiasm for what I'm feeling called to.

Tips for coping with chaos

      1. Practice making more deliberate choices. There's ALWAYS negative stuff to focus on, but there's really a lot more to be grateful for, if you just stop to remember a few of those things. Choose to focus on those things - from the small things to the big. If there's a traffic jam, be grateful for your car or a favorite song or the extra time to ponder a new project.
      2. Disengage from "the world." There's a lot more happening than what we're able to gather in from our senses. We can't always believe what's "real," so be willing to be open to other realities. As one of my mentors says, "Don't keep ‘facing reality' if you don't like what you see." Remember, be in the world, not of it.
      3. Count your blessings. Look around you for the many things that you can be grateful for. Don't forget the very simple or "mundane" things, like sight or indoor plumbing or the color yellow.
      4. Remember your dreams or vision. Keep your eyes on the prize, as they say! When you're so focused on your dream, obstacles really can't stop you.
      5. Feel the sparkle of your soul calling you to your purpose. Let your soul respond to your Divine calling. Let the shimmer of enthusiasm light you up. When you're feeling your Sparkle, your path is made smoother.
      6. Be gentle with yourself and the process. When chaos surrounds you, it's easy to slip in to that stream. Try to be gentle with yourself as you develop the habit of learning to choose your thoughts more deliberately. Although these are important habits to develop, keep the process loving and light-hearted.
This week, please keep your focus on what you want your life to be like and how you want to move through the world. As you focus on more peace and joy in your life, those qualities expand. The more we live in joy and peace, the less the fear and chaos can effect us. Spread your joy!

What's that you say? I love to hear from you, and I read every email personally, even when I can't reply to all of them. Send your thoughts to shawn@joyouslifeworks.com or visit my blog: InnerPeaceActivist to add your comments! And if you prefer not to be quoted in a future article, just let me know.

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Copyright © 2008, Shawn Murphey. All rights reserved.

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Upcoming Events

Flowers The following events are excellent ways to help you become more familiar with your internal guidance system:

Speaking Circle - Thursday, October 2nd, 2008
7:00 - 9:00 PM Pacific

Do you suffer from stage fright or simply want to speak with more authenticity and impact? You can master the ability to fully engage your listeners by tapping into your natural capacity for Relational Presence, practiced in Speaking Circles®.

Speaking Circles® programs transform the way people communicate by focusing on the essential step missing in conventional public speaking trainings — the connection between speaker and listeners. Circles offer a  relationship-based approach which provides a supportive listening environment where you explore and discover how to express yourself confidently and naturally in your own unique style.

Click Here to register.
Contact Shawn Murphey for more information.


Remember Your Inner Sparkle - Monday, October 22nd, 2008
**COMPLIMENTARY teleclass

6:00 - 7:00 PM Pacific

Each of us has an innate gift, an inner sparkle.  Life can knock us around and with time, this sparkle can feel like it's dimming.  When we remember that we still carry that sparkle, and that we can tap in to it regularly, we discover we have more possibilites and options available to us.  Sparkling feels great - and what's better than feeling great more often? Click Here to Find out more

Email me, or phone me at 916-369-2077, for more information on any event or to register.

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